Archive for October, 2006

Reflections on the Eve of a Wedding

This evening, Julie and I had the pleasure of attending the wedding rehearsal dinner for our dear friends and Northside church members, Wayne May and Dorothy Woodall. This sweet senior couple have fallen in love after losing their respective spouses and tomorrow it will be my privilege to join Dr. David Jeremiah and Dorothy’s son, John who is a pastor at Northpoint Church in Atlanta in presiding over their nuptials. At the University Hilton tonight, their family and closest friends gathered for a nice dinner and a time of testimonials and reflections on the eve of their big day.

The room was filled with 4 generations of families. During the testimony time, many of the grandchildren and children rose to speak with great affection and wonderful eloquence about their grandparents. While they shared their hearts, two precious little great-grandaughters danced to music while watching themselves in a wall of mirrors and oblivious to what was going on around them. What deeply impressed me was the fact that so many spoke with personal passion about the spiritual impact that their grandparents had made on them. Some were newly married, others soon to get married, a couple were expecting children, one wonderful couple with whom we had the pleasure of sharing a table who had thetwo dancing daughters are adopting another child from the Honduras in a few months. Their stories were filled with examples of God’s providence, of their love for the Word of God, of the impact of their family on them.

I can’t imagine a prouder pair than Wayne and Dorothy as they sat and listened to the wonderful heritage that is theirs. Wayne was a faithful member of Shadow Mountain Church in El Cajon, CA for many years and served as the chairman of the board for Christian Heritage University. His daugher Cindy and her husband,John (Walker) arefaithful members of Northside as well. Dorothy was married to an evangelist/minister and their children have a mature walk with the Lord that would be a blessing to any parent. Now, at least in marriage, their families will merge and intermingle to some extent and new stories will be written.

All in all, it reminded me of the wonderful joy of Christian family — both earthly and eternal. The room was filled with tears and laughter and stories and even songs and poetry. Wayne and Dorothy spoke of their desire to use these special years together to be servants and ministers together.

Sometimes being a pastor has sad moments, frustrating times and even discouraging days. But it’s sweet hours of fellowship and encouragement that takes the edge off the difficult aspects of spiritual leadership and which reminds me that in terms of what God is doing in our lives — the best is still yet to come.

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Catching Up

Once again, I find myself so busy that I haven’t had time to blog anything substantive lately. I’ve got plenty of ideas, just short on time.

Last week, I really enjoyed reconnecting with old friends and making new ones at the Florida Association of Christian Colleges and Schools Convention in Orlando. It looked like there were nearly 3,000 delegates there. I gave several workshops and each one was packed out. One sweet lady told me that she hadn’t missed one of my workshops in seventeen years. That was both humbling and gratifying. I was able to grab lunch with Mike and Susan Bartlett, former members of Northside who are in the Orlando/Haines City area first helping to planting a church and now leading a Christian school through an expansion. They are such great people and I look forward to seeing them eachyear when I’m in Orlando.

Little did I know when I was there last week, that I’d be returning to Florida this week. Tonight, I make a quick trip to West Palm Beach to attend the funeral of a dear family friend, Tom Bonfonti. Tom and MaryAnn were the closest thing we had to family for many years in Florida. They absolutely spoiled my kids rotten and the kids have always called Tom, “Papa”. Tom passed away on Sunday at nearly 84 years of age. I’m catching a late flight tonight after church to be there for the funeral in the afternoon and will return home tomorrow evening.

My series, “Get in the Game” has been a success this fall at Northside Baptist Church. With three weeks remaining, I’m really encouraged by the large number of 1st time guests our members have brought. We take them to lunch each week and every week, but last week, we’ve had at least 75 guests and hosts join us for lunch. We were down a bit last week due to some very nasty and uncharacteristically cold and damp weather. But we expect a great day this week and we’re making plans for another super Sunday. If you haven’t seen any of the messages, you can check them out on our streaming media page by clicking HERE. We’ve even had churches callor write and request the rights to the series for duplication which we are happy to provide. I’m already working on my springs and next fall series ideas. (But I’m not telling what they are just yet.)

Friday was homecoming for our school. We had a HUGE crowd at the game. I’m guessing somewhere between 1,200 and 1,500. We crowned one of our sweet young ladies, Ashley Minor, to be the Homecoming queen. She and her twin sister, Jenny, are just two of the sweetest young girls I know and they come from a super family. Nathan and a lot of the kids from Liberty and other colleges came home for the week-end and we enjoyed that as well. Next week-end, the Burrell’s head to Lynchburg for family week-end.

Sunday, I enjoyed getting to meet fellow-blogger, Tom Pryde and his neat family. They joined us for lunch and Tom’s sweet wife and five delightful kids were a lot of fun. Tom’s the blogger known as “Neofundamentalist” and it was amazing how similar our backgrounds have been. Plus, he plays a mean acoustic guitar.

Last week, Julie and I enjoyed a nice dinner with Dr. Charles Wood and his lovely wife, Lorraine. I’m always so stimulated and encouraged when I get to spend a few hours with the Woods. I felt like I was a CIA interrogator with him and we discussed everything from the whole Calvinism vs. non-Calvinism debate in evangelicalism, to politics, to the state of fundamentalism and a dozen other fun topics. If you ever get the chance to have Dr. Wood at your church, you should absolutely do it.

Speaking of the Calvinism vs. Non-Calvinism debate, I was looking forward to the big debate at Liberty University between the Caner brothers and James White and associate which was to be held in a few weeks. I was taking one of our NCA grads and we planned on making a road trip of it to see our students and friends and catch the debate. But it was cancelled this week and I made the mistake of reading the trash talk between the two sides that lead to the cancellation. I’m glad they cancelled it. I’m disappointed that even the private dialogue was filled with extremes of snobbery and sanctimonious word parsing to the blunt, confrontational retorts of what sounded like a couple of street fighters. It was an exchange totally void of grace and decorum and I can only guess that the debate would have devolved into a ridiculous spectacle as a result. I’ve had a tremendous amount of respect across the board for all those who were scheduled to participate and really wanted to learn from their perspectives and scholarship, so I’m a bit disillusioned right now. I’ve got some pretty strong thoughts on the contention that exists across evangelicalism right now over the whole “Calvinism” issue and when I get in the mood to make everyone on both sides mad at me, I’ll blog about it.

Today is my youngest daughter’s birthday…Katie is now in double digits — 10. I always take each of my kids out for a birthday breakfast — a tradition I’ve been able to keep for all these years. Katie probably enjoys her birthday more than all of the rest of our kids combined. She just revels in it. I always “sneak” a candle in to the restaurant and light it when they aren’t looking. Most of the kids hate the attention. Not Katie — she even lets me sing “Happy Birthday“out loud to her. This morning, I didn’t realize it, but others in the restaurant had noticed and joined in with the song. Each of my kids are a special gift from the Lord and celebrating their birthdays means something extra special to me.

The kids are out of school for the rest of the week due to teacher’s convention, so I’m going to run over to Hendersonville with them on Friday to pick apples. (Another fun Burrell tradition.) We love roaming the mountain side filling our wagons with right-off-the-tree apples of a wide variety.

So that’s what’s been happening in my corner of the world lately. I’ll try to get something more substantive up in a little bit. As always, thanks for checking in.

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Foley’s Foolishness shows the Folly of the “Big Tent” Philosophy of Republicans

At this writing, the saga of Foley’s perverted fooishness shows no sign of abatement. Each day gives us a new twist and turn to the unfolding story of corruption that has become Congress and yea, the Republican Party. Seven days into this tale, it has grown the legs of a marathon runner. It is quite possible that, short of a terrorist attack or some huge catastrophe, this story will be page one stuff for at least another couple of weeks — perhaps (though possibly unlikely unless we start seeing a domino-effect of high profile resignations from Congress, additional IM/Email exchanges being released or the discovery of other scandals involving members of Congress and congressional pages) it could continue right up to election day.

In what this observer considers a hail-mary effort at a cleansing theory, today people ranging from the Drudge Report to Rush Limbaugh are speculating that this is some sort of page-prank designed and intended to embarrass Republicans right before the election. To these folks, I wonder if you also believe in alien visits, CIA transmitters in fillings and that the resolution of the Mideast Conflict is just around the corner.

In the spirit of Monday morning quarterbacking, might I suggest that the Republicans have been laying the groundwork for this scandal and their subsequent loss of power for years. Let me forward my thoughts on the topic to you.

First, this is what you get when you let the camel in your tent. What is the camel in this case? The so-called economic conservatives but social “moderates”/liberals. The Republicans came to power when the real conservatives — both social and economic conservatives — elected Ronald W. Reagan to office in 1980 and a Republican majority to Congress in 1994. These grassroot had 3 of the 4 qualities that get people elected to office — numbers, networks and passion. They were mad as…. the dickens… and they weren’t going to take it any more. So this silent giant, many of the conservative Christian evangelicals and salt-of-the-earth Americans who had watched things that were important to them attacked (like prayer/Scripture in schools, traditional morality, the sanctity of life) — awakened with a roar. They networked in churches and 4-H clubs and neighborhood coffee klatches and begin learning the political ropes that changed the direction of American politics like few waves of discontent had ever donebefore. Their passion was as tireless as was their anger over the loss of what they believed was the “American way” and it’s corresponding values. The one thing that was missing — many of these folks were common, blue-collar, working class — was money. Thus, from Lee Atwater to George Bush the elder — the message of having a “Big Tent” for the Republican Party began to be a rallying cry to the rich and powerful Republicans that they were needed to come in and finance the machine that would become the new Republican party. So we had the Log Cabin Republicans (Gay wealthy business types) and the re-emergence of the Rockefellar Republicans who wrote the checks that make politics of this generation hum and counters the deep pockets of the George Soroses and Hollywood leftists who have more money than good sense. In exchange for their dough, the Republican party often sold-out the party base by giving lip service to many matters that mattered to the values-driven voters, but failing to pass most of the legislation that they championed. On the other hand,the values voterswere lectured by the old-line elites of the Republican party on a need for broader messages, less militancy and more “compassion, kindness and gentleness” which they knew would appeal to sincere people of faith but wouldn’t last twenty seconds in the battlegrounds of Washington, DC.

So, the Republicans have welcomed liberal Republicans like Lincoln Chaffee and Mark Foley into the fold rationalizing that it was the “best they could get” in their particular areas of the country. They watered down the values talk and made economic accomplishments their real success story delivering huge tax cuts to the middle class and up hoping to appeal the social conservatives with the pretty baubles of tax refunds and lower taxes. And for awhile it worked. This uncomfortable alliance, loathing eight years of Clintons in the White House, reawakened to put George the Younger in office twice. Like a tired old boxer, it was hardly a sweeping victory they won, but it was a victory nonetheless. Then came 9/11, the crash of the dot.coms, andtwo wars — one of which was based on a faulty premise and has produced a quagmire that is still unfolding.

The battle was now over the ubiquitous, yet nebulous threat of terrorisim. Gas prices soar. Supreme Court nominations seemed to be getting muffed by a distracted President. No progress was made on protecting the traditional definition of marriage. Abortions are as legal as ever. The base was growing restless when not apathetic. They swung between apathy and resignation. Anytime they grumbled too loudly, the President would deliver a few “values” speeches and they’d reintroduce yet another piece of “values” legislation that everyone knew would never pass so that there could be at least the illusion that something was being done.

And then there was the age-old arrogance and rationalization that comes with power. James Dobson and Ralph Reed get caught up in the Abramoff scandal. Tom Delay left office under an ethical cloud. Powerplays like mid-decade redistricting infuriated Democratic partisons. Pork, pork and more pork — now being delivered by Republican legislators balloned the deficit and reminded those who are old enough to remember of the worst days of Democratic control. Robert Byrd is now matched by Ted Stevenson. Deals were cut. A spirit of untouchable invincibility began to pervade Republican corridors across Capital Hill. The Republicans lost touch with their base while fighting to win re-election for liberal incumbents while their base wanted more conservative voices. “Big Tent” was shouted when Arnold took the Governorship of California. “Big Tent” invited the Gays into the party. “Big Tent” made Rudolph Guilianni a likely front-runner among the social liberal voters in the Republican Party. John McCain castigates publicly people like Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson — who, in spite of their frequent oratorical oversteps (and I’m being kind there) — have delivered more voters to the Republicans in the last quarter century than any other religious right leaders. (And something to note here: McCain’s campaign sunk like a rock shortly thereafter as one of the dumbest political moves in history unfolded.)

So combine an arrogance of office and power, with a restless base and the inclusion of people with whom ANY kind of bed-sharing is not only illogical but offensive and you have the ingredients for a perfect storm that is about to sweep the Republicans out of power in one month’s time.

I don’t know if the Republicans have any inkling of how ticked off many in the religious right are right now. A good friend of mine, a principled conservative with a bit of a libertarian streak in him AND a former Bush administration official in Washington told me today that he’s going to vote straight Democratic this year just to get rid of the sorry excuses for leadership the Republicans have in place now. Was he being hyperbolic and just venting, perhaps, but I don’t think so. Even if he settles down quite a bit, I don’t think he’ll vote Republican….he’s just likely not to vote at all. (But I wouldn’t be surprised if he does hit the Dem button just for the relief he’d feel in making a statement.) His story is one that I hear over and over again.

In fact, I hear it in three ways — One type of values voter tells me that they’re mad and going to vote anti-incumbent. One type of voter says that they are just going to sit this election out as they are just repulsed by what politics has become and they are confused by the leadership. The third type is saying nothing at all. Nothing positive, nothing that would rally others, nothing that defends the Republicans — just nothing….a deadly, stagnant silence.

Anyway you slice it, the news is bad for Republicans.

As this commentator sees it, there are now two primary options. One is that the values-motivated voters either sit this election out or vote against the incumbents and dismantle the Republican party as it is known. Get rid of Hastert and all his committee chairmen by either throwing them out of office or letting Nancy Polosi consign them to oblivion for a couple of years. Let new, principled leaders emerge. Let them rework what the Republican party really stands for and what they will deliver by the time of the next election — which will be a big one and if Hillary is running, has the potential to bring out legions of voters with VERY strong opinions. There needs to be the re-emergence of someone with Newt Gingrich’s intellect and passion, but without his moral baggage and abrasive reputation.

OR….maybe it’s time to see a new third party formed. Let’s face it, the Democrats — even with the gifts they’ve been given by inept Republicans — have been largely reduced to a party of extremists and whackos characterized by the likes of Cindy Sheehan and Bill Mahr and Al Franken and Barbra Streisand. The Republicans are imploding before our very eyes. There has to be a solid 40% of the population who doesn’t want to be identified with either party. Let’s kick the homosexual, liberal, leave-your-wife-of-20-years-for-a-newer-model Hollywood types out or not invite them in the tent at all and see what happens.

You can’t expect to bring people like Mark Foley — a “moderate/liberal” who did a horrible job of closeting his gayness — into the same tent as family-oriented voters and expect them to get along with people who see him as the antithesis of what they believe. So when homosexual men, do what homosexual men do — look for sharp-looking, attractive young men and try to bed them,— we ought not be surprised. They never belonged in a partythat has a base of religious-oriented conservatives. When hypocritical conservative-speaking politicians get exposed as immoral hypocrites — dump them right out of office and do it fast. Let’s not become a rewarmed Democratic party that looks the other way (or eventually venerates) while people like Barney Frank and Gerry Studds and Bill Clintonact out their sexual orientations. Let’s find a party that actually stands without apology for what is decent and when fallen people do stupid things, then deal with it with integrity — don’t cover it up for a couple of years or hope that it will go away, like Dennis Hastert and friends apparently did.

It’s time to either shrink the tent or pitch a new one — but no more, ya’ll come in and mess up our party just because you’ll wear the right name badge.

And my NEW prediction. Republicans will lose control of the House by a shift of as many as 30 seats. (Fifteenis allthat is required). Republicans may be looking at 50/50 split in the Senate or a 51/49 split which could go either way. It’s going to be tight.

But there’s worse things that can happen than have a Democratic majority for a couple of years while the Republicans decide who they want to be or a new party gets organized. One of those “worse things” would be to let things continue as they are.

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A Few Quick Notes and Thoughts

I had hoped to post something of substance before I head to Florida this week, but I’m not optimistic about getting to it. I’ve got a full schedule, about 45 papers to grade, some errands to run and fewer than 20 hours before my flight leaves. So here’s just a few random notes…

I’ll be in Orlando, FL at the Orange County Convention Center for the FLorida Association of Christian Colleges and Schools Convention. I’ve been there 22 of the last 23 years as a delegate, the President of FACCS or a speaker. I’ll be speaking three times and introducing the current President, Dr. Dino Pedrone, as he gives a keynote address. If you happen to be at the convention or in the area, let me know and we’ll try to link up.

We had a great day Sunday. Attendance was up, we had a large number of guests, 88 of us went to lunch at Logan’s Restaurant (where the service ended up being only marginally better than it was at Max and Erma’s, so we’re going to try a third restaurant this week), we had a very good offering, Sunday night attendance was very strong and there’s a good spirit all over the campus.

This coming Sunday night, there will be an information meeting at Northside Baptist Church to discuss the motion to give final approval for the massive church parking lot repaving and road expansion project. I’ll be giving all the details after the evening services at 7:15 in the main auditorium and I’ll post them again on this blog for Northsiders next week. These are exciting days for our church and you won’t believe the change this project will make in the look of our campus.

As details come out about the sad killings in the Amish school house in Pennsylvania this week, it seems like there is no safe place for innocence or innocents any more. I grew up right outside of an Old Order Amish Settlement (these folks were even more conservative than the PA sect) and they are decent, hard-working (albeit, peculiar) folks. They have the same kind of problems in their homes and community and churches that we do — maybe worse. We often look at them with a sense of detachment due to their odd beliefs, but they deserve our prayers and compassion.

Speaking of the loss of innocence, my revulsion over Mark Foley and his vile, predatory, criminal conduct just expands with each new wave of information. I’m outlining an article I’m planning on completing for my syndicated column which I’ll post here as well. The GOP is a mess these days. (For the record, if Foley had been a Democrat, he could have been schooled on how to survive this scandal by Barney “the Pimp” Frank who allowed a homosexual escort service to be run out of his house by his gay lover — so spare me the hand-wringing by Pelosi and pals. Frank is a chief spokesman for the Dems these days and should be named the Patron Saint of Hypocrisy so as to represent their parties handling of past moral scandals in comparison to this one.) It’s just sickening and in my opinion, this would be a good year to clean out the entire Congress from top to bottom. And for those who are trying to rally the Christian Conservatives to protect the Republican majority, I say, “There are worse things than having a Democratic majority in Congress for a couple of years. One of them is becoming comfortable within a political party that has lost it’s moral will and direction in the swirl of desperation and arrogance that comes with wanting to stay in power at all costs.”

Finally, my good friend, Dr. Charles Wood will be speaking at Northside tomorrow night at our WOW (Worship on Wednesday) service at 6:30. If you are in the area, you should come hear him. And now, I’m off to have dinner with him. I’ll write more from Orlando if I get the chance.

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