Archive for April, 2011

Where Have All the Parents Gone?

While driving to work this morning, I heard a news report of legislation introduced in a Northeastern state that would require a medical attendant to be on standby at many summer camps which have campers playing games in which they have the potential to be hurt.  Included in the list of “dangerous” sports was whiffleball and dodgeball.  How about they make a state law that requires parents to put kids in bubble wrap at birth?  Truly ridiculous.

At the other extreme I have been thinking recently about Hollywood parents who are so bent on making their kids dysfunctional-family.jpg“famous” that they expose them to incredible debauchery and conduct that will suck a young soul dry before they ever have the chance to form values.  Among the ones that come to mind are the parents of Angus T. Jones who plays the “half” in Two-and-a-Half Men.  This kid from Texas started acting at age five and for most of his years, has been on the set of the vile sitcom that stars Charlie Sheen and Jon Cryer.  What chance does that kid have of ever embracing an even moderately stable worldview equipped with values and  principles that won’t land you in crazy town as it has with the show’s star?

Almost daily, one can pick up a newspaper or read an internet story that gives a story of some pathetic parent who has been involved in child abuse or neglect.  Every time I hear of such a case, I’m always impacted by the shocking sadness and I am repulsed by the cruelty.

indulgent.jpgIsn’t it ironic, though, that we are so often outraged by example of parents who beat or abuse their kids, who curse at them or don’t take them to get medical attention, who let them live in squalor or leave then unattended for long periods of time?  On the other side, we have some who are so intent in “protecting” the body of the child that they don’t want them to play vigorously for fear that they’ll get hurt or who will sue a school district so that they get picked for a part in the school play or who would legislate away the child’s freedom to enjoy a hotdog, french fries or kool-aid at lunch.

Sadly, between these two extremes, we see many who ignore equally brutal cases of neglect that involve the heart and soul and not just the body and emotions of a child.

How many times have we gone to a mall to find packs of young teens roaming the interior or hanging out in the parking lots with nary an adult in sight.  Our kids disconnect from family dinners, family drives and family walks and plug in to you tube, I-Tunes and Netflix.  I’ve been shocked as a pastor to hear stories of things that have happened at overnight “sleepovers” or Risky Business-style parties in the very homes of intelligent parents who are distracted by other pursuits and who often shrug off egregiously inappropriate (and even wicked) behavior on the part of their children with “what are we going to do?” or “kids these days” expressions.  While living in South Florida a few years ago, I read with horror of a girl who lost her life during breast augmentation surgery which her parents had given to her as a sweet sixteen birthday present!  One recent report revealed that fully 80% of our young teen males have visited or regularly visit pornographic sites via the internet while mom and dad are asleep at the switch.

My question is this,  is it not as equally abusive or neglectful to allow one’s child to be morally or emotionally scarred as it is to physically scar them?  Is a parent who fails to get their child immunized or who lets them eat junk food any worse than the one who allows their child to watch graphic sex and violence on TV or the internet?  Isn’t a parent who signs off on letting their son go to watch “Saw VI” or “Superbad” guilty of a unique level of parental abdication?

Would I not be thought a bad parent if I allowed my ten-year-old to play with my loaded gun?  Should I not be thought a bad parent if I allowed my ten-year-old to listen to a song that describes a man beating his wife to death with the butt of a gun or play a video game that depicts men raping women?  Is there really that much difference?

What kind of message does a parent send to a child and all her friends when they say to their sixteen year-old daughter, “Of course, dear — at your age it is important to be overtly sexually attractive to boys, so let’s have your breasts enlarged.”?  Is it much less of a message to purchase clothing for them that emphasizes their cleavage, encourages men to see up their skirts or which emphasizes the curves of their body simply because it is considered “stylish?”?  If a parent talks to their child about drugs and not getting in a car with a stranger and eating a balanced diet — should we not also be talking to them about modesty and chastity and doing difficult tasks and showing respect?  Isn’t that a part of parenting as well?

If the moral decline of this nation is to be reversed, it will not occur because of political efforts.  It must begin with a revival in the hearts and homes of our nation.  As each generation of dysfunctional and ill-trained children gives birth to a heal-dysfunctional-family.jpgnew generation of even MORE dysfunctional and ill-trained families, the snowball of decadence and decline grows larger.  Not only that, the chasm between those who are committed to sound values and Biblical principles and those who embrace irresponsibility and moral relativism grows.

Ultimately, I cannot control what goes on in other people’s homes, but I can control what goes on in mine.  When I see the neglect and abuse that others tolerate, I know that I must redouble my own efforts to raise my children in a protected and planned path that will allow them to learn and hopefully embrace the values that will keep them safe (physically, emotionally, intellectually AND spiritually) and which will honor the Lord.

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Hell Yes, Hell No? A Conversation about “Love Wins”, Rob Bell and Why You Should Give a Rip

herald-hell-ad2.JPGOn April 10th, our church, Life Fellowship Bible Church, in Cornelius (Charlotte), North Carolina hosted an apologetic seminar to discuss RobBell’s book, “Love Wins” in which he calls into question the historic evangelical position on the existence of hell and who will ultimately end up there.  Our pastor, Dr. Bobby Conway begins with a 50-minute lecture on the issues (watch for his new book coming out in a couple of months on the topic from Multnomah Press) and it is followed by an hour-long question and answer session featuring Dr. Conway, Dr. Alex McFarland (one of America’s leading apologists) and Matt Hatfield (an elder of Life Fellowship).  It was my privilege to moderate the Q and A.

If you’d like to watch this seminar, you may now do so by clicking HERE.

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Should Rob Bell be “At the Bar”?

council.jpgWe are living in uncharted territory when it comes to communication and media.  The changes in my half-century of life have been amazing as I have gone from a world where we had to wait for the phone to ring four times before we knew for sure that it was for someone in our house (party-line days) and I even had a pen pal to where everyone in my house now has a cell phone and an email address.  If the weather was just right in our area, we could pick up three television stations when I was a child.  Today, the 140 channels we get on our satellite TV services are often ignored by my kids who prefer Youtube, Hulu and Netflix.

In this day of the new media, it is possible for just about anyone to gain some audience via the internet through blogs, forums and webcasts.  Even publishing a book is much easier with a plethora of self-publishing companies available and now e-books are rapidly gaining in popularity.

And as communication continues at ever faster speeds, accountability for what we say is rapidly declining.  Whether it’s teens who get caught in the web of sexting or students who steal term paper content from the work of others via google or those who publish books which have not been subject to editing, review and evaluation at a level of rigor that was once required, while the quantity of media-driven content is increasing, few would argue that the quality is suffering dramatically.

This is what brings me to the title of this article, “Should Rob Bell be ‘At the Bar’?”  Please give me a few moments to explain…

I spend quite a bit of time in the world of academia where a sub-theme on many university campuses is “publish or perish”.  It is expected, that if you are to be considered a scholar of any reputation, you must periodically produce significant treatises supported by research, empirical evidence and careful theses.  There is a process for producing respectable work and the pinnacle of that process is to be published in some sort of academic journal that highlights the best of the best in your journal.  There is often an oral presentation before peers as well.  These two steps invite the kleig lights of academic review from one’s peers and other experts in the fields, who, as a matter of academic sport, will mercilessly grill every jot and tittle of what you have written or proposed.  IF (and that’s a pretty big “if”) it survives, then it is considered a landmark or watershed work and others will then build upon it and reference it and it becomes a part of what is referenced in academic circles as the “stream of knowledge.”

In many ways, this is like being “in court”.  It must hold up to the scrutiny of the rules of research, logic, rhetoric, law (natural and otherwise), ethics and myriad other disciplines.  If found worthy, it proceeds.  If not, it is relegated to the scrapheap of academic “junk” and largely ignored.  If considered dishonest, particularly shallow or simply unworthy, it can draw substantial rebukes from the academic community to the point of loss of standing and even conclusion of career for the author.

atthebar.jpgIn legal circles, historically there has been a “bar” which must be crossed that divides the common observer and the experts.  To be a bonafide attorney, one must “pass the bar exam”.  There is a symbolic “bar” behind which you’ll find the judges and attorneys in many courts including the US Supreme Court.  When one stands before a judge to plead his case, it is considered making an appeal “at the bar” during which the plaintiff or defendant must use the law and the rules of evidence to convince the judges of guilt or innocence.

Now let’s think of today’s communication in theological circles where young evangelical leaders, often deemed successful because of the number of people who follow their blogs, read their books, attend their congregations and pay fees to attend their conferences, can produce books with the ease of high school term papers and make millions as their devotees rush to Amazon and Barnes and Noble to purchase their latest ponderings.  These young pastors and evangelists are frequently referred to by the secular media as “rock stars” because of the wild popularity and adoration they receive from their audiences.  The loyalty is nothing short of amazing at times.

However, in this age of “new media” there is less accountability than ever before as peer review can largely be skipped and direct access to the audience is not only easy, but supported by publishers who see the profit potential when a “rock star” leader releases a tome that grabs attention and headlines around the blogosphere.  As denominationalism has shrunk and there is less ecclesiastical oversight due to the massive multiplication of “independents” and “non-denominational” churches in the last generation, there is virtually no one who can match the voice of a Joel Osteen, a Rob Bell, a Brian McClaren when they stand before their adherents or publish their latest revelation, opinion or foray into theology.

But does anyone who is serious about theology seriously consider any of this crop of evangelical leaders to be academic heavyweights?  Where is the review by scholars and peers that precedes most any other science when landmark and seismic-shifting works are released to the masses?  To whom are these folks accountable as they literally re-frame the perspective of entire generations on issues of historical orthodoxy within the evangelical movement?  The best those who see flaws in their theses and arguments can muster is often after-the-release blog articles and heavily-edited interviews and reviews which attract a tiny portion of those who are exposed to the initial work.  Thus historic positions on key doctrines can be tried, challenged and over-turned in one-sided tomes without a serious discussion ever having taken place.

Perhaps it’s time for an old-fashioned notion — a Church Council.

Whether we review the confrontation of Peter over the issue of circumcision or the multiple church councils that were called during the days of gnostics and Romanists or the reaffirmation of historic and fundamental creeds that were issued to enunciate and define orthodoxy, the history of Christianity has multiple examples of self-correction that came from high-profile challenges before a court of sorts that was composed of scholars and credible experts.

In recent years, Greg Boyd, a scholar of some note at Bethany College and a mega-church pastor at Woodland Hills Church in St. Paul, MN, was largely criticized for his theory of “Open Theism” — a belief that some humorously described as “earnestly contending for the ignorance of God.”  His was one of the most recent and earliest controversies in this new era of unaccountable media.  His introduction of additional theories as to how a Sovereign and omniscient God can function within a world that possesses free will rattled a lot of theological and philosophical cages and is one of the major instances of a modern theological controversy in the days of the new media.

It was, however, a minor kerfuffle compared to the one that has broken out over Rob Bell’s book, “Love Wins” which rob-bell1-300×263.jpgmany describe as resurrecting theological liberalism, promoting a practical from of universalism and redefining the historic orthodox position on the existence of a literal, eternal hell.

The reaction — both pro and anti-Bell and Hell — has been significant across the blogosphere.  Today’s huge Christian publishing empire has also provided many new opportunities to bring theological controversies to secular outlets and the firestorm over Bell’s book has been no exception as Fox News and Martin Bashir and other secular media megastars have taken note of the controversy and invited Bell to be interviewed.  Most of those who are offended-to-outraged by Bell’s theory have found it difficult to gain a tiny fraction of the voice he now commands as his book has reached the upper spots in Amazon’s best-seller list.  The debate has become rather vitriolic on both sides with significant challenges being made against Bell’s theology, spiritual standing, financial objectives and other issues coming from one side while the other often calls those who might earnestly disagree with Bell “haters”, “fundamentalist extremists” and so on.

But where was the review?  Where were the formal challenges?  How is it that one man in a single book can seemingly resurrect an old posit of theological liberalism and, in effect, rattle the foundation of orthodoxy among a significant percentage of evangelicals without so much as a single defense of his thesis before evangelical and theological scholars?  And let’s face it, appearing on “Fox and Friends” is NOT an audience with theological experts.

Thus, my suggestion.  I believe it is time for someone of stature to call for a Theological Hearing of sorts — be it a council, a court or some other style of examination — at which Rob Bell should be called to “the bar” to present a scholarly defense of his landmark work.  If he refuses, then hold the court with Bell being in absentia but using a careful review of his book, his sources and any other writings or sermons which he has produced that have some connection to “Love Wins”, but also let his absence be noted and be testimony in and of itself.  Select six, eight or a dozen scholars from leading evangelical institutions — Wheaton, Dallas Theological Seminary, Southern Seminary, Southwestern, Talbot, Master’s Seminary and others — who would serve as a jury.  For the sake of moderation, do not include those who would be viewed by a majority as way left or right on the evangelical/theological spectrum be they fundamentalists or liberals.  Let experts from varying perspectives appear as witnesses.  Give him a fair hearing.  Do everything possible to get him to appear before these scholars.

And then issue a verdict.  If he can Biblically defend his position, then affirm it.  Call for evangelicalism to embrace it.  Consider Bell a worthy scholar and give him credit for his work.  If his position is found incorrect by virtue of the absolute standard of Scriptural Canon, then rebuke him.  Demand a retraction and repentance.  If he refuses, mark him as a heretic if that is appropriate.  But make him give account for his words.

There is too much at stake to just ignore this and pretend it’s no big deal.  Spurgeon said that “Theology is the queen of all the sciences.”  If that is the case, then some must take upon themselves the responsibility of defending the rules that keeps that science credible and it begins and ends with a high view of Scripture as the infallible, immutable Word of God.

I’m not sure who has the stature to issue a call and organize the review.  Perhaps it should be called for in a letter of leading pastors who might suggest a moderator.  Perhaps some venerable academic scholars or deans or professors should make a declaration and offer the terms and a venue.  People smarter and with a broader audience than I have can take on this charge.  But can we admit that changing the definition of “Hell” is no small matter and possesses the potential for dramatic implications throughout evangelical Christianity for those who adhere to a literalist perspective on matters of Biblical interpretation wherein the rules of theology require it.

Bell should have nothing to fear from such an appearance or exam.  Truth should always be able to stand on its own legs.  If he fears his theory cannot stand before the weight of scholarship, then he should withdraw it on his own accord.  If he refuses to defend it, then the examination should still occur and may the verdict not only speak to the topic, but to the author.  This does not need to be an inquisition, but at least can we agree that there should be an examination?

What say ye? Pass this on to others for discussion, agreement or disagreement if you are so inclined.

Dan Burrell, Ed.D.
Cornelius, North Carolina

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Don’t Miss this Seminar in the Charlotte Area!

herald-hell-ad2.JPGHave you heard all the noise about Rob Bell’s new book “Love Wins” and wondered what it’s all about?  Is there a literal hell and is everyone who rejects Christ doomed to spend all of eternity there?  What happens to theology when we start removing the parts of it we don’t fully understand or even like?  What is “Universalism” and does it fit within the worldview and theological paradigm of people who believe the Bible is infallible, immutable and preserved?

Pastor Bobby Conway, Senior Pastor of Life Fellowship in metro-Charlotte, NC, is going to be hosting a 2-hour seminar Sunday, April 10th at 6:00 at Davidson Community School.  Following his seminar, there will be a moderated open panel and Q and A time with Pastor Bobby and some of the elders and other leadership of Life Fellowship church.

It is vital for thinking Christians to know what is being debated around the world and to have an answer for those who practice an unsound theology.  Make your plans to hear Pastor Bobby uncover the theological issues involved without joining in personal attacks on the author.  It’s part of learning to think Biblically!

See you there!

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